At a glance
Verb てこそ means "only by doing ~" or "it is precisely by doing ~". It stresses that an action is a necessary condition for a meaningful result or realization.
Verb (て-form) + こそ、[result]
自分でやってみてこそ、その難しさがわかる。 Only by trying it yourself do you understand how difficult it is.
How to form it
Put the verb in the て-form and add こそ. Politeness is shown at the end of the sentence, not in てこそ.
| Verb group | Dictionary form | て-form | てこそ |
|---|---|---|---|
| う-verb | 飲む | 飲んで | 飲んでこそ |
| う-verb | 書く | 書いて | 書いてこそ |
| る-verb | 見る | 見て | 見てこそ |
| る-verb | 食べる | 食べて | 食べてこそ |
| する | する | して | してこそ |
| 来る | 来る | 来て | 来てこそ |
With nouns and な-adjectives, the form is であってこそ: 健康であってこそ "only when you are healthy".